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dominic posted a condolence
Monday, April 4, 2011
HI XOXXO just thinking of u ok xoxoxo bye have a nice day!
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Flo Tripi posted a condolence
Thursday, March 10, 2011
I just heard of Sue's passing. I am so very sorry. She was a good friend and a co worker in the Health Department. I had seen her about a year ago at a CSEA function and we had some laughs about old times. I am sorry that I did not know of her recent illness. I would have contacted her and made a visit. I also would have been at the wake and funeral. Please accept my sincere condolences. She was a great person and at last she is free of pain and suffering. May you all be comforted. Flo Tripi
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John Sacchitella posted a condolence
Sunday, February 20, 2011
Yesterday, I was fortunate enough to speak at my Aunt Sue’s funeral. These are the thoughts that I shared. So how Lucky are we? A strange way to start but really, How lucky are we? My Aunt Sue was an amazing gift to us all. Not too long after she passed, I was sitting with Dina just after she passed, and Dina said it best then, she said EVERYONE that knew my mother was better off for having known her mother. And isn’t that the truth. How Lucky are we to have the memories that we have? If we randomly asked anyone here to share a reflection, what would you share? Certainly how kind my aunt was would come up. She had the most caring heart. Many others here today would share what a great listener she was. Oh and could she talk, only one kind of conversation to have with Aunt Sue – a long one! I won’t do it, but I was tempted today to ask for a show of hands from anyone here that would go to my Aunt for advice. Weren’t problems better when you were with my Aunt? She could always make you feel calm and at peace. Aunt Sue could always make you feel like everything would be OK. If asked to share your favorite memory – Who would bring up my aunt’s laugh? I know one of the many memories my mom might be thinking… When they were kids and my mom, her brother Mike and sister Cathy would send their little sister Sue sledding down the stairs strapped to a silver serving platter that they took from the kitchen, and how they would give their little sister a nickel to confess to doing something that they had done, knowing that the little sister wouldn’t get in nearly as much trouble as they would. We all have memories that we will all hold dearly forever. I know my Aunt Sue meant a great deal to everyone here. So I REALLY want to thank my cousins for the opportunity today, for me to share what she meant to me. My oldest memory of my aunt– the party after Carrie’s Baptism. I want the parents in the room to think how important this day must have been to my Aunt. ANY first would be with your oldest – do you remember how hard you worked to make everything just right – to make it perfect? You learn quickly how impossible perfect is with young kids around. That’s where I come in. I think I was about 6 years old, I leaned over on the table next to me and put my whole elbow in the cake. I remember a few things that happened right after that but what I remember most was how NICE my aunt was. She gave me a “that’s alright honey, and then she just cut around my elbow imprint. That was my aunt. How lucky was I to have her then? I was also lucky enough to live really close to my aunt. As a kid I would ride my bike over to Aunt Sue’s house all the time. I would go on vacations with them. We went to Roseland, Hershey Park and Marine Land, all the Thanksgiving Dinners and Christmas Eve Parties. When I was little we used to go watch the girls open presents every Christmas morning -WOW - PRESENTS EVERYWHERE. Santa really loved those girls. I can’t imagine Christmas or Thanksgiving without Aunt Sue. When I was a little older, I went on my first road trip – Hands Across America. I was so excited about being a part of this BIG event that. I told many people that I was going to drive to Youngstown Ohio to be a part of a line of people holding hands across the entire United States. Most thought this was ridiculous. My Aunt Sue thought it was awesome. So after years of going on family vacations with them, I was lucky enough to have my aunt, uncle and my cousins go on my on my first road trip with me. The trip was great… EXCEPT - I remember getting ahead of my aunt and uncle, when they finally caught up to me, I looked over to my left and saw Uncle Art scowling and my Aunt Sue mouthing “SLOW DOWN.†The closet relationship that I have had with GOD was because of my Aunt Sue. I was a Junior in high school when I decided, after MANY long discussions with my aunt, to go to confirmation classes at Good Shepherd. Can you imagine the influence my aunt had on me to go take these classes with 8th and 9th graders as a high school junior. How rare is it that one could have influence, NOT through pressure or intimidation but though love. A few years ago a bunch of us went to Fratelli’s, for a family dinner. I think it was Carrie’s Birthday. It was a rare event because all three girls were there. I remember sitting near my aunt and looking down the table I could see all three of them… Carrie, Vicki, and Dina at the same time. I looked at my Aunt and said to her, “you would be hard pressed to say which of the three girls is the prettiest. She smiled so proudly while nodding and simply said, “Yes, I know.†And they are beautiful, all three of them… GREAT THING IS and they are even more beautiful on the inside. Their dedication, devotion and love for their mother is a tribute to their mother and the type of person she was. The girls should be proud of themselves for certainly their mother was. VICKI – for the past several months you have been nothing short of amazing. Your mom said that she saw angels near you – no one that knows you would doubt that. You have been your mom’s angel for some time now. Over the past few weeks I’ve heard many people wonder why my Aunt held on so long. What is keeping her here? That was never a mystery to me– she just plain loved having all three of her girls to be together and to be with her. A few days ago, Carrie and I were talking about how it seemed appropriate that her mom would pass on Valentine’s Day. In Carrie’s words, “My mom is the love of my life. Her dying on a day that represents love makes perfect sense. We all know that Aunt Sue will live on in our hearts and memories forever. She obviously lives with on within the girls. It is easy to see HER and easier to hear my aunt when you are with Carrie, Vicki, or Dina. So in these ways Aunt Sue will never be gone. About 30 years ago I attended my first wake. It was my grandfathers wake. Like last night, the event was filled with laughter, and joy, and stories, and memories being shared. Unlike last night, it all really angered me. I hated how people were laughing and joking and enjoying themselves. Remember, it was my first Wake and being 17 years old - it just bothered me. My aunt saw that I was having a hard time with it all and came to talk to me. I told her what was bothering me (and I will never forget what she said) she looked at me and smiled and said, “You Grandfather will always live on in your heart and in the hearts of those that loved him. But, your grandfather is not here. He is with God.†She went on and said, “When I die, I’ll be with Jesus and all the angels in heaven. I‘ll be so filled with love and joy, and happiness that I won’t be aware of all of this. AND the entire time she had this great BIG SMILE and an amazing sense of confidence. I have to admit that there is a very selfish part of me that would like to believe that my Aunt Sue is here now, listening to us remember her. A selfish part of me wants to believe that she approves of what I am sharing today. I KNOW where my aunt is now… It is a place that she looked forward to going to, and I KNOW it is exactly where she always knew she would be. I started today by saying, how lucky are we. I think that where my aunt is now, the biggest thought she must have, more than any other, she must be thinking… How lucky am I? I want to close by sharing something that my aunt wrote to her brother when he passed over 12 years ago. Ironically I think my Aunt has captured what we would all like to say to her now if we could. So in her words… Soar like an Eagle, Let your soul take flight. Ride on the wind, And go towards the light. Your pain is all gone, Your spirit is now free. God has brought you home, To enjoy eternity. I have to admit I’ll miss you, And I felt you left me behind. You’ve always been in my heart; You helped shape my life and my mind. We had a bond so very strong, Many did not understand. But I know the bond isn’t broken For you’re now in God’s loving hand. I love you Aunt Sue!
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Richelle posted a condolence
Saturday, February 19, 2011
I will forever remember your love, laugh and kindness. You impacted everyone you met. I will miss you terribly.
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Ciara & Family posted a condolence
Saturday, February 19, 2011
Our thoughts & prayers are with your family. Our prayers are with you... RIP. You were a very strong woman and always had a smile on your face every time I saw you. May you now RIP with no more pain.
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Tammy Hahn posted a condolence
Saturday, February 19, 2011
Carrie, Vicki and Dina, I am so sorry to hear about your mom! My thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time.
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Karen Gillen posted a condolence
Friday, February 18, 2011
You were such a wonderful woman. Often like a second mom to me. You will be missed but I know you are at peace now. With Love~ Karen
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Aryan Duntley posted a condolence
Friday, February 18, 2011
I met this sweet lady only once. But it was the same day I met one of her beautiful daughters, who has been a positive influence in my life. My prayers go out to all those who grieve this loss, but also,I rejoice for the blessing of new life in return.
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Alicia Faticone, Freddy, Brittany,Anthony & Dominic posted a condolence
Friday, February 18, 2011
Our thoughts and prayers are with you Carrie, Dina and Vicki. Lots of love to you all.
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Sandy Lehmann posted a condolence
Friday, February 18, 2011
I always enjoyed Sue's smile, sense of humor and sense of right and wrong. She was down to earth and always caring-I know that she is flying with angels now and that does give me a sense of peace to this painful situation. God Bless all especially her girlsFVIVU
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The Walker Family posted a condolence
Friday, February 18, 2011
Thoughts and prayers are with you all!
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Russ and Jane Strong posted a condolence
Friday, February 18, 2011
Vicki, Carrie & Dina, Our deepest sympathy,love and prayers are with you as you go through this difficult time. May your sorrow be softened by the love that still unites you and by the cherished memories you will always carry in your heart.
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Saskia Penrose-van Beers posted a condolence
Friday, February 18, 2011
What a beautiful woman, and what a fabulous smile. It's clear you look like your mom Carrue! Big hugs and love from accross the pond for you and your family. I wish you all closeness, love and loads of fabulous smiles for the future.
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Sharon & Jim Cox posted a condolence
Friday, February 18, 2011
Carrie, Vicki, Dina, Your mother's smile could light up a room and her sense of fun was infectious. I remember her with great fondness and am so very saddened by her death and your loss. Please know you are in our thoughts and prayers. With love and our deepest sympathy, Sharon & Jim Cox
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Teri Dehn posted a condolence
Friday, February 18, 2011
Today we will gather in your name to show our love for you and tomorrow to offer prayers to light your way home. And everyday we will carry you in our hearts. We love you, we will miss you and butterflies have a new meaning for those who are close to you. You fought a courageous battle, now take flight my friend and be free. I love you. Teri
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michael raye posted a condolence
Friday, February 18, 2011
my heart goes out to the friends and family who loved susan... i know she will on in your hearts and minds...
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mary posted a condolence
Friday, February 18, 2011
I remember sitting at the kitchen table with Dina and her mom talking about high school drama. She always had such sound advice for whatever issue we were having at the time. Sue was a wonderful, kind, understanding woman and mother (so wonderful she even let Dina paint her bedroom black!) She will be missed by so many.
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Donna posted a condolence
Friday, February 18, 2011
My beautiful Aunt, forever in my heart and soul.
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Phil &Nancy Sacchitella posted a condolence
Friday, February 18, 2011
Her love of her daughters and how proud she was of them. The family parties with Sue's great sense of humor and wonderful smile. The love she showed to family and friends. Her courageous battle with cancer and her never give up attitude. She had a caring attitude,and was good at listening to others problems and gave helpful advice.She will be missed greatly.
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Dave & Darlene Spafford posted a condolence
Friday, February 18, 2011
Carrie, Vicki, and Dina, You have our prayers and love during this time. I, Dave, worked with your Mom years ago at R.T. French. Who would have guessed that years later we would be almost neighbors, our kids would become friends, and we can still consider both Sue and Art our friends despire their differences. Darlene graduated from Monroe High, knew your Uncle Mike and your Mom. Sue was one beautiful woman and I'll remember her wonderful smile. We send our love to all 3 of you. God's blessings, Dave and Darlene Spafford.
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Mary Thor posted a condolence
Thursday, February 17, 2011
Dear Sally and family, my prayers are with you as you remember your mother, sister, and aunt.
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Eileen Scahill posted a condolence
Thursday, February 17, 2011
Mrs. Faticone was a gorgeous lady with infectious smile and laugh. My deepest condolences to Vicki, Dina and Carrie and all friends and family who had the honor of knowing her.
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Christopher posted a condolence
Thursday, February 17, 2011
Any lovely person who gave us Dina deserves all the love and peace she can get. Thinking of you and your family. Christopher
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kathleen whelehan posted a condolence
Thursday, February 17, 2011
Dina, I'm so sorry to hear of your mom's passing. love, Mrs. Whelehan (Maura's mother)
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Philip O'Neal posted a condolence
Thursday, February 17, 2011
I've never met Susan. But I feel that I know her through my friendship with her daughter Dina. If there is any glimpse of the person she was through the spirit of her daughter, then she was truly a great person and a wonderful mother. My prayers and blessings go out to the Faticone family. I morn with you. Philip O'Neal
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Jackie Blanda posted a condolence
Thursday, February 17, 2011
Girls, my thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time. Your mom is a beautiful woman and I will always remember her grace and kind and loving way.
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Sally posted a condolence
Thursday, February 17, 2011
We always feel the love you showered on all of us. Carrie, Vicki and Dina ....that special love will always be in your heart forever. We will miss her more than can be expressed in words.
Service Info
Feb 19, 2011, at Church of the Good Shepherd, Henrietta, N.Y.
Interment
Fingerlakes Crematory, Livonia, NY