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Monday, July 23, 2018
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Mark and Leslie Zornow posted a condolence
Saturday, November 11, 2017
We are so shocked and saddened by Paul's loss. I met Paul for the first time about 24 years ago when he and Mark were roommates on University Ave. From the very beginning, Paul was warm, friendly and fun, always ready with a big hug and a smile. He was a groomsman in our wedding 20 years ago and remained a close friend. We lost touch with Paul a couple years ago but remarkably heard from him a month ago. He told us about his struggles but was still positive and upbeat. He talked with great pride about his beautiful daughter Donna - how smart she was and how much he loved her. We will miss him terribly.
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Friday, November 10, 2017
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brian hewitt posted a condolence
Thursday, November 9, 2017
I hope you have found the peace that seemed to elude your life my old friend...even though it was many years since we last saw each other...I remember our first meeting and how friendly and open you were to me as we became quick friends ....thanks for being my friend..I grieve for thee.....
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John Hartman lit a candle
Thursday, November 9, 2017
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John Hartman posted a condolence
Thursday, November 9, 2017
My most sincere condolences to Paul's family. I am so sad, and this has still not quite sunk in yet. Paul was my dear friend for about 32 years. We went through so much together. We left home in 1986 to go live in Florida together for a short while. We were roommates at at least 4 different apartments in our 20's. We started a painting business together around 1990 that lasted about 6 years. Paul taught me so much. He taught me how to paint. He advised me on many things. He was an exceptionally smart person. He was always in a good mood and rarely lost his temper. He had a way with people. He taught me about how to relate to people which I still apply today. In the mid 90's, He asked me to be his best man, which I was honored to do. In 1999, he returned the favor by being my best man. We traveled all over the country to see the Grateful Dead and Max Creek for decades. So many good times! I will miss him. Rest in peace my friend.
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Tim Roy posted a condolence
Thursday, November 9, 2017
'Tall' Paul was a kind and gentle soul. I always enjoyed talking with him as he made people feel at ease with his positive vibe. I remember him being at many Druids shows. He was also very proud of his Audi Quatro. RIP Paul
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James Beerens posted a condolence
Thursday, November 9, 2017
Paul, always a friend. Once we were fishing in our little boat on Canadice Lake when a 'day meteor' whizzed by us. We almost capsized due to the laughter and fear that overtook us. Paul's laugh was not loud, but it was awesome.
Humble, kind, and wise beyond his years, I quote Paul regularly when someone is tearing down another person's character. Here is the quote: "Hey. that's someone's kid. Your trashing someone's kid when you say those things." He said this before he even had Donna-Jean.
I never saw Paul break forth in a fit of anger. How many of us could say the same.?
My condolences to all. He gave us so much just by being himself.
-"Hey Johnny, we paintin' tomorrow.?"
This is rough. A great loss that has yet to truly sink in.
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Sheliah posted a condolence
Thursday, November 9, 2017
My sincere condolences on your family's loss. Paul was a friend to many. During these past few days I have spoken with many of Paul's friends and more than a few called him "my best friend". I can see why. He was easy to talk to and always tried to lift your spirits. As of recently Paul and I reconnected and took up just where we left off. We had spoke with great fondness of our many crazy stories and inside jokes that only a handful of us would even understand. I remember him smiling as we talked about the good old days and it was good to see his laugh. He was such a fun loving guy. I will miss him and hope he has found peace.
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Marypat Straw posted a condolence
Wednesday, November 8, 2017
Oh Donna,
I am so very sorry to hear this sad news about your Dad. You’ve sure had more than your share of trials and I want you to know, I am here for you if you ever want to talk. I had many difficult experiences when I was your age. I’m glad Dante can be a support for you thru this time.
Fondly, Marypat
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Michele Beeley posted a condolence
Wednesday, November 8, 2017
My sincere condolences to Paul’s family on this tremendous loss. I’ve known Paul since I was a teenager, and Paul was always kind, and could be counted on to share a smile and a compliment whenever I saw him. As I reflect back over time, Paul was a consistent presence at so many events in our lives, including major life milestones, music related outings both near and far, and more mundane but nonetheless fun and memorable times. I am grateful to have these memories and will reflect on them with appreciation and laughter as well as a profound sadness.
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Scott Murawski lit a candle
Wednesday, November 8, 2017
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He always made a point of saying hi to me at our shows. Just a great guy. He will be very much missed.
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Rebecca Norr-Hartman lit a candle
Wednesday, November 8, 2017
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Rest in peace now gentle soul
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Rebecca Norr-Hartman posted a condolence
Wednesday, November 8, 2017
I am so very sorry for your profound loss. He was loved by many friends who are all still in disbelief that he is gone. Paul was the best man at John Hartman's and my wedding in 1999 and he was always a source of laughter and fun in our lives. I know he was struggling with life lately and many people wish they could have done more to help. I only hope that he is now at peace.
Our thoughts are with his family as you go through this enormously difficult time of loss and grief.
Rebecca Norr-Hartman
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Dave & Nikki Mason lit a candle
Wednesday, November 8, 2017
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Mike Maddock lit a candle
Wednesday, November 8, 2017
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Jim Duffy posted a condolence
Wednesday, November 8, 2017
My sincere condolences to Paul's family. He was always one of the friendliest souls I've met, and I could always count on a friendly smile and a handshake whenever seeing him at a Max Creek show. Rest in peace my friend.
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Judith moore posted a condolence
Wednesday, November 8, 2017
Paul was such a gentleman. Kind soul It was an honor to have met someone so fun and caring. Paul has a permanent stamp on my soul. I think he is dancing to shake down st. Now.
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Denise Shuart posted a condolence
Tuesday, November 7, 2017
Steve and Kim, sorry to hear about Paul. Thoughts and prayers to all the family.. may memories help fill the loss.. love Denise Shuart
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Phil and Amy Plunkett posted a condolence
Tuesday, November 7, 2017
Our hearts and prayers are with you .We know there are no words we can say , but know that we are praying for you . We believe that Paul is at peace and pray that you find solace in that . We have fond memories of Paul , which will always be with us .
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Patrick Schnall posted a condolence
Tuesday, November 7, 2017
I met Paul when we were about 15. I was from Pittsford, and he was from the next town over...East Rochester. We quickly became "best buds". We'd go fishing, exploring, or just hang out with our large group of friends from E.R. And Pittsford. That large group of friends stayed close long after high school... and we remain close to this day, a rarity in this world! After high school, Paul, John H (another dear friend of ours) and I got a place together in East Rochester...and then another on Laburnam Crescent in Rochester. We had countless amazing times together. It was during that time that we discovered the Grateful Dead. The three of us (and other members of our "Tribe") saw over 100 shows together, traveling the country seeing The Dead and Max Creek.
Eventually we all went on to live separate lives, but we ALWAYS remained close. When I was down on myself, Paul would be quick to compliment me, telling me how special I was...lifting me up out of my funk. That was my favorite part about Paul; he was always there to lift you up, or to help when the going got tough. During one period in particular, I needed help, and of course Paul was there, by my side. He invited me to live with him until I got back on my feet. Words cannot convey how much I appreciate the love, understanding, and support he gave to me throughout our lives. We knew we could rely on one another... and we did so on many occasions.
Paul wasn't just special... he was an angel. An Angel too special for the cruelty, hatred, and decisiveness that all too often envelope the world we live in.
To Paul...I Love you. I'm gonna miss the hell outta you buddy!
I'll see you again...when the time is right.
Namaste
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Tim Clarke posted a condolence
Tuesday, November 7, 2017
Paul was a gentle kind man! He loved his Daughter and music tremously. He had a great sense of humor and a funny laugh I’ll never forget. I live in Oregon and he came to visit about 4-5 years ago. We went to the ocean together and talked over the weekend. I’ll miss him but he will never leave my heart. YOU WILL BE MISSED BUT NEVER FORGOTTEN. Until later my friend.....